Homemaking: enriching art, or unending drudgery?
If you ask Rebecca Phillips of RYouReadyToOrganize, it can definitely be the former. Because like anything else, our perception informs our attitude.
So she’s all about easy, steady steps to transform your home into the haven you deserve. Which means she goes beyond organizing: she also shares her passion for indoor/outdoor gardening and simple recipes (especially baking 🍞) to nurture our bodies and our spirits.
Today’s #CoffeeBreakStory continues my series about Everyday Women Over 50 living contently on their own terms, regardless of the latest societal trend. Because after years of fulfilling others’ expectations and needs, now is our time to go deep with stuff that personally lights us up! ✨
RYouReady to meet a new friend? Grab your coffee ☕️ —let’s go!
Housewife, Homemaker, Domestic Goddess (oh my!)
Let’s just admit that the term “housewife” gets a cringe these days. While it was socially acceptable 50-some years ago, it’s been replaced with Soccer Mom ⚽️ and, later on, Stay-At-Home-Mom (SAHM). Anything to justify and even dignify tending to the house. Though someone’s gotta do it sometime, no?
Even “homemaker” sounds quaint or old-fashioned to some. And women of a certain age (like me) remember the “domestic goddess” moniker! It was supposed to elevate the essential yet unpaid role. Somehow, it felt a little silly…and it continued to be an unpaid job! 🤷🏻♀️
For Rebecca, though, it’s all semantics. Certainly, she’s sensitive to people’s preferences. But in her view, creating and maintaining a home sanctuary is a timeless, worthwhile endeavor.
And she has no issue with calling herself a professional homemaker.
I think that what I do is quite different from most organizers. What I do is all of homemaking. It’s not just organizing. So whatever you see as a homemaker for you…whatever your vision is? That’s what you should do! Your home is your castle. What kind of homemaker do you wanna be? (chuckles) I really don’t care…you decide what you want to do!
Now before you erroneously assumes my friend is the new June Cleaver, know that she earned her master’s in social work and administration. For many years, Rebecca was knee-deep with writing grants, assembling contracts, and guiding small businesses with organizing their paperwork. All of which formed a solid foundation when she decided to exit the corporate world and work from, on, and in her home.
When she met and married the love her life at age 39, Rebecca willingly relocated across state lines and began creating a new life chapter. Fast forward 20+ years later, she has transformed her stay-at-home hobbies into a small business that promotes the beautiful art of homemaking. It’s a part-time endeavor that brings her full-time pleasure—plus some rainy day funds!
RYouReadyToOrganize also serves as the platform for her to continue what she does best: encouraging and helping others create a happy place in their homes.
My favorite is one-on-one: getting them to streamline or let go of things—you know, a lot of stuff that doesn’t serve them well and is weighing them down. It’s great!
And it all revolves around a little organization.
The Allure of Organized Stuff
Who doesn’t gravitate towards all the pretty pictures of uniform shelves, drawers, and closets pristinely and precisely organized by color, product, season? I’m no different. 😍 Home goals, amiright?
Yet how realistic is it to expect a well-loved, lived-in home to always look this way? Who cares to constantly be picking up, wiping down, and putting things back just so? Endlessly accordian-folding our panties (!) per Marie Kondo specifications? 🙄
Granted, a certain amount of maintenance is mandatory to fend off chaos. But Rebecca deliberately chooses to focus on what makes unique sense for each of her clients. She figures out what matters most to them, with what they own already.
Which means purchasing all new organizational systems is not always the answer.
Most organizers I know create a Better Home & Gardens room, take a picture of it, and say, “Isn’t this perfect?” (laughs) I don’t want that! Who’s gonna do that? It’s really a letdown. Many people have told me, they see those pictures and they’re beautiful, but it’s not gonna happen in their homes. They just wanna take their stuff and maybe add to it, or maybe repurpose it. So I’m not about perfectionism … I’m not about magazine covers.
For picture-perfect fantasy rooms? Check in with Martha Stewart or The Home Edit ladies!
For simple yet real-world home tips? Rebecca is our gal! ✅
And now, time for a game of “Either/Or” —a rapid-fire fun Q&A to find out what you and Rebecca have in common!
M: All right, I want to ask you a series of “either/or” choices and this is fast. No overthinking!
R: (gasp) Oh, drink!
M: (chuckles) Yes, chug that coffee!
R: OK, it’s actually bone broth. 😇 (sips)… Ready!
M: Cook or Clean?
R: Cook 👩🍳
M: Cats or Dogs?
R: Dogs 🐶
M: Decorate or Garden?
R: Garden 🌱
M: Organize or Declutter?
R: Declutter. 🗑 (pauses) Believe it or not! Organizing is harder than decluttering.
M: IG or FB?
R: IG 🌅
M: Hawaiian Pizza or Fish Tacos?
R: Fish Tacos, yum! 🌮
M: Wine or Beer?
R: Wine!! 🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷
M: OK, game over. Rebecca? Sweetheart?? Put the wine down now… 🤭
R: Oh—Okely-dokely! (Hic!) 😵
Note to self: feature less spirited options in the beverage question…
The Wrap on Organizing Concepts With Rebecca
Rebecca and I connected on IG over our mutual love for living with only the things that we truly need, use or love.
In a frothy social media sea of selfies and style, she is a heart-warming, down-to-earth soul. What you see is what you get. And what you’ll get is kindness and a knack for making your home comfortable and cozy.
When her husband retires next Spring, a move will be in their future. After a little decluttering of her own (’cause that’s life), packing, and settling into a new home, then what?
She foresees a lot of golfing, birding, and fishing in her future small town. Sounds like a woman who knows what paradise looks like in her next chapter! ✨
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Pick up those proven organizing, gardening, and cooking tips when you head over to Rebecca’s sites:
- RYouReadyToOrganize website
- RYouReadyToOrganize IG
- RYouReadyToOrganize FB
- RYouReadyToOrganize Pinterest
- RYouReadyToOrganize YT
I am genuinely impressed with how she has identified her Happy Path and is living her dream, whether it’s in vogue or not. That’s my kinda style!
*Images of Rebecca were sourced from her website/IG and stylized by Mary
My hope is that sharing these Everyday Women’s stories will inspire you to shift with courage into what brings you joy!
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